TRUST
Introduction:
We will learn in this study that trust is a major factor in providing
leadership in any group.
A major breakdown in leadership occurs whenever trust breaks down between
elders, deacons, ministers, and the congregation.
The slides have been developed and adapted from information researched in
Corporate Leadership journals and set in church situations where trust is
essential, yet often absent.
Whenever elders empower deacons or ministers trust becomes a major factor
in the success of the empowerment.
Trust is a major factor in any participative process of church leadership.
The elders must trust the deacons and ministers, as well as the good will
and intentions of the congregation.
The following Slides are accompanied by Notes discussing the slides.
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This slide introduces the topics that will be examined below.

As can be seen from this slide, trust is a major factor in all kinds of
relationships.
In fact, trust is a major factor in Christian faith since the Greek word
for faith, belief, and trust are the same, namely,
h pistis - he
pistis.
The last question on this slide is important!
•WHOSE RESPONSIBILITY IS IT TO MANAGE TRUST?
The obvious answer is that it is my responsibility, not that of anyone
else!

It is important to note that trust exists on a number of levels and
impacts our lives in a number of different ways as indicated in the slide
above.

Sometimes we take trust for granted!
However, we will learn that trust does not just happen, it has to be
managed.
Trust will always involve an element of risk,
for in human relations, we all too often fail.
What we find that is interesting in this trust business is that trust is
not a single one sided element, it is multifaceted and always involves
both trust and distrust.
We would hope that trust outweighs distrust, but this is not always the
case.
When distrust outweighs trust then problems, often major or serious
problems arise.
These problems involve angry encounters, division, and sometimes divorce!
The major point we want to make here is that trust
is bipolar, the poles being trust and distrust.
The following slide demonstrates this bipolar
aspect of trust.

Notice the four emphases in this slide:
1) Trust is bipolar - we have already
commented on this
2) There is always an element of ambivalence
in trust relationships
3) There are several facets to trust relationships, hence
trust relationships are multifaceted and
sometimes complicated
4) In the diagram above, the two-dimensional
aspect of trust is on a continuum between
Solid Trust and
Distrust.
We control where we are on that continuum.
The dangers of too much stress on management tends to
lead to Distrust.
Most of the time we spend between the two extremes.
Shallow trust leads to suspicion.
Deep trust results in confidence.
We need to work to where the dimension of Trust is
stronger than that of Distrust.

This slide draws on corporate studies.
Another way of looking at the trust factor is to see that there are two
factors to trust:
1) A side in which we move between High Trust
and Low Trust
2) Another in which we move between High
Distrust and Low Distrust
3) This presents four quadrants which we have numbered 1, 2,
3, 4.
4) It is obvious that # 1 is not where one wants to be, for in this
quadrant we have a dysfunctional
organization
5) # 2 is better than #1 but manifests a number of problems such as
no confidence, apathy and
frustration on the part of its workers
6) # 3 is workable, some empowerment takes place, but control is the
main issue here
7) # 4 is much better where we have Low Distrust and High Trust.
The next slide translates this into a church dynamic.

In this chart we focus on Leadership Style.
We range from a Dysfunctional Leadership model through an Autocratic
Leadership, a Moderate Empowerment Leadership, to a Participative
Leadership.
It is important for congregations to find where they
are on this continuum of leadership and to take steps to move toward an
Empowering Leadership.

We pay specific attention here to areas in which
little trust is manifest.
This demonstrates itself in who makes the decisions!
Signs of distrust normally manifest
themselves in tight control and management rather than leadership.

Trust is evidenced in participative decision making, empowerment, and
confidence.
Whenever empowerment is evidenced, some form of accountability and
responsibility must be managed.
The key to this management of accountability is not
to let this slide into control!

There are a number of factors that destroy trust.
Care should be taken to safeguard against these.

We can demonstrate the development of a dysfunctional setting by the
"domino" effect of a breakdown of communication (when people or groups are
not talking meaningfully with one another) which gradually leads to
dysfunction.
The key to this deterioration of trust is to address
the problem as early as possible.
If nothing is done and the situation
deteriorates then ultimately division deveelops and conflict mediation
becomes necessary.

Romans 14 and 15 are key passages in examining a breakdown of trust and
what it takes to restore trust.

There are a number of factors that help build trust.
One must initially aim at Integrity.
Integrity is like being "transparent" where
what people see on the outside is what is on the inside.
When what people see on th outside is not what is on the inside, we have
hypocrisy, or play acting at life!
Practicing the values itemized above helps develop trust.
Someone has said it takes a lifetime to build a savings account but one
careless day to empty it!
Trust is like building a savings account by regular
and consistent deposits into one trust account!

Trust is building relationships.
Building relationships takes time and conscious
effort.
The chart suggests a number of ways that congregations or groups can go
about building trust.

This chart is an amusing illustration of
trust-distrust situations and trust-trust situations!
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